Thursday, September 15, 2016

Student Ambassador Reflection - Philip Kamei

Philip Kamei, a student at Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, was selected as NWK Student Ambassador in 2015.  He traveled to Wakayama Prefecture along with Andrew Gruhn in July 2016.



Check out his essay below to read about his experiences.


Ambassador Reflection by Philip Kamei

I absolutely loved my time in Japan, although I was a little nervous about the whole trip during the weeks leading up to the flight. I was nervous that my lack of Japanese language would make communicating difficult, and I was nervous that people would think it was weird that I looked Japanese but did not act Japanese. However, I could not have been more wrong. To my pleasant surprise, there were many people who could speak English, and I could sometimes communicate in Japanese even though I knew very little. Also, I discovered that even though my family and I live in America, we are not that different from a family living in Japan.

My host family was amazing. My host mother and father always made sure that my stay was as comfortable as possible. Even though there was a small language barrier, we could still have very interesting conversations and I very much enjoyed talking to them. My host mother was an amazing cook and my host father grew delicious fruits and vegetables. They always made sure that I had plenty of food at every meal. I definitely gained a few pounds during my time in Japan, but it was absolutely worth it. Before my arrival my host parents had planned something for almost every free day of my trip to ensure that I could experience as much of Wakayama as I could. I could never thank my host parents enough for all that they have done to make my stay in Japan so enjoyable.

I also spent a lot of time with my host family’s children and grandchildren. My favorite moments in Japan were when I was just spending time with their grandchildren, Maika and Manami. Everyone truly made me feel like I was a part of the family.


My days during the first week in Japan were spent mostly in or around Wakayama City. On my first day my host parents took me on a tour of the area around their house, Kire. I was able to see my host father’s rice fields and his fruit and vegetable gardens. I was also able to experience Japan’s infamous humidity. Being from Southern California, I don’t experience humidity very much, so I was not a huge fan of the weather in Japan.

A few days later I took the famous Tama Densha to go shopping in town. That was new experience for me, as not many people use the train in California because the system is so inefficient and it takes longer than driving. But in Japan the train works so well! I was pleasantly surprised that we only had to walk to the station (which was about a two minute walk), and then the train takes you straight into the middle of the shopping center!

The last thing we did during the first week was take a trip to Wakayama Castle. That was really interesting because at the time, it was the oldest building that I had ever visited. Even though you could find countless buildings in Japan that are older than Wakayama Castle, most of the buildings in America are relatively young. At most museums in America, the buildings and artifacts are usually less than 200 years old. The picture to the right is from the top of the castle with Tomo, my host parents’ son.


During the second week of my stay in Japan, I spent more time exploring areas in Wakayama other than the main city. Some of the most beautiful areas I saw while in Japan I saw while on the two day trip with the America-Japan Society. We saw a lot of beautiful scenery both along the coast and more inland in the mountains. This trip was especially interesting for me because I got to visit one of my family members, and see the house that my great-grandfather had lived in with my grandfather. It was amazing to think that for so long before I was even born, my ancestors had lived around that area, and now I was visiting all the way from America. It really made me think about that even though my family and I might live in America, our roots, ancestry, and a large part of our culture still definitely come from Japan.

After returning back to my host family, we all took a trip to Koyasan. Again that was an incredible experience just knowing that everything around me was so historical and old. Koyasan is over 1200 years old, and we just have nothing even close to that age in the United States.

Although it isn’t in Wakayama, the last trip I took with my host family was to Kyoto. We visited numerous shrines and temples, but my favorite was definitely Kinkaku-ji. All of the temples and shrines were so beautiful and it is incredible to think that they were built so long ago before modern day building tools.


I enjoyed my time in Japan so much, but my favorite moments were just when I was with my host family doing normal things. Be it learning from my host father how to pick edamame, or teaching Maika a duet on the piano. My most cherished memories from Japan will always be spending time with my host family. While I was in Japan, it was strange because even though I did not speak the language or have never lived in Japan, I felt an odd feeling of belonging. Maybe it was just because I wasn’t used to everyone around me being Japanese, but I felt like everyone around me and everyone I met had values and beliefs similar to what I was raised under. It’s a weird feeling to describe, but it was a very comforting feeling, unlike anything I have ever felt in the United States. I hope that I can return to Japan one day in the future, hopefully sooner rather than later. I was actually curious if there were any career opportunities for me in Japan, and I was surprised to find that there are a lot of internship opportunities for my field of study aimed at students from the United States, so perhaps I will return to Japan for a summer internship sometime soon.
I am extremely grateful for this opportunity that I had to visit Japan. I made so many new friends and countless memories. I had a great time and I learned so much. Thank you to everyone who was involved in making my trip possible.

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